When I first started my polyamory journey, I expected that we would all need to have extremely good communication. This has absolutely been true. Although… some days, when we’re discussing the consistency of my dog’s morning poop after she’d been sick, I think we communicate perhaps a little too much… But I digress. At first,…
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I Met My Twitter Crush and Here’s What Happened…
“We were just supposed to write a story together…” In mid-November 2022, I put out a call on Twitter, looking for writing partners. I had this idea of writing the same erotica scene from two points of view, one a male dom and the other a female sub. Instead of writing both voices, I wanted…
Fear and Intimacy in Polyamory
As I’m writing this, it has been just over three months since I started down the super-weird-but-also-super-cool polyamory path with my husband Cash and my boyfriend W. (My *boyfriend*? I am 38 and have a *boyfriend* again? What the hell is my life???) I started writing a post about all the things I’ve learned so…
On Ethical Non-Monogamy – My Journey into the Unknown
My husband and I are ethically non-monogamous. And that’s a big, hard, exciting, terrifying statement to write. For those of you who don’t know my story, a brief history to explain how we got here… I started sex blogging and writing erotica in 2008 (ish? I think?). It was a way to explore my own…