When I first started my polyamory journey, I expected that we would all need to have extremely good communication. This has absolutely been true. Although… some days, when we’re discussing the consistency of my dog’s morning poop after she’d been sick, I think we communicate perhaps a little too much… But I digress. At first,…
Category: Real Life Updates (Non-Erotica)
I Met My Twitter Crush and Here’s What Happened…
“We were just supposed to write a story together…” In mid-November 2022, I put out a call on Twitter, looking for writing partners. I had this idea of writing the same erotica scene from two points of view, one a male dom and the other a female sub. Instead of writing both voices, I wanted…
All the Sides of Me Belong to You
You love me when I’m a brat, asking, “Is that all you got?” and daring you thrust harder. You spank me and I growl, “Harder,” and you don’t stop until I’m bruised with beautiful bite marks all over my body. It turns me on the next day, to see your paintings of desire all over…
Fear and Intimacy in Polyamory
As I’m writing this, it has been just over three months since I started down the super-weird-but-also-super-cool polyamory path with my husband Cash and my boyfriend W. (My *boyfriend*? I am 38 and have a *boyfriend* again? What the hell is my life???) I started writing a post about all the things I’ve learned so…
On Ethical Non-Monogamy – My Journey into the Unknown
My husband and I are ethically non-monogamous. And that’s a big, hard, exciting, terrifying statement to write. For those of you who don’t know my story, a brief history to explain how we got here… I started sex blogging and writing erotica in 2008 (ish? I think?). It was a way to explore my own…
Little Hearts
Like me. Please like me. I watch you give my pictures little hearts, which should be inconsequential, but whose numbers have the ability to devastate me if they are too low. And also if those numbers are too high, but no one actually wants to be my friend. If people are happy to send me…
Yes, All Men
“How could this happen?” I whispered, staring at my phone to read the news I had known was coming. Nothing could have prepared me. Even seeing the leaked draft of the court’s decision weeks in advance hadn’t made me believe they would actually overturn Roe v. Wade. I had still held out hope. Cash hugged…